Dani Wade Style!
Autumn is my favorite season, for more than the averages reasons. Yes, it’s cooler and at this stage of my life I have a deep appreciation for cooler temperatures. Yes, the turning and falling leaves are magical here in the southern US. Some of my favorite colors even make their appearance in fall – coppery orange, buttery yellow, rich burgundy, and chocolate brown.

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SNOW BOUND RELEASE DAY!

Ah, we all have them, those rushed weeknights full of Cub Scout meetings, music lessons, sporting practices, and church activities. We rush, rush, rush to get there, then wait while our beautiful children do their thing. Often twiddling our thumbs when, as writers, we could be accomplishing a whole lot in the span of an hour.
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Game Time![/caption]
Now I might as well admit up front that I was never one of those women glued to the viewing window when my daughter took gymnastics. I'd glance out once in a while during class to see what they were up to, but otherwise I had better things to do than critique her every tumble and roll. That’s what the teacher is there for. I know that sounds judgmental of me, but its totally true. I don't need to watch every second, especially if I can sit where I can see the action just by looking up. I don't need to spend the whole time critiquing team performance (though I may mentally be cataloguing the coach's performance and making sure my child is safe). And I don't need to talk ad nauseum about the season, upcoming events, other teams, etc.
I need to be writing.
You know how these types of weeknights go: get home, snack, homework, barely enough time to breathe before starting dinner, chow down quick enough to get ready and go. By the time you get home that night, you're exhausted and creativity has disappeared beneath the tidal wave of To Dos. But my schedule doesn't wait for me to have time, its there for me to MAKE time.
Here are some of my options for writing (or writing related activities) during these little pockets of kid activities:
1. Be Prepared
I've found this is easier if I'm prepared. I keep a tote bag packed with a notebook, headphones, pens...just waiting for me to drop in my iPod, plotting notes, and alphie. What's that, you ask? When writing on the go, I find an Alpha Smart to be really helpful. This is a portable, almost indestructible word processing unit (I bought the basic Neo with no option for connecting to the internet) that saves immediately and can download directly into a Word document. Lite enough for me to carry it everywhere and it has 8 different files that I can work on. I also carry a small notebook in my purse, so if I'm caught out I can at least make notes or hand write scenes on that and transcribe it later.
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Music Lessons, Anyone?[/caption]
2. Actually Write
I have to start writing immediately, before I get sucked into conversations or daydream away the whole hour. I find a comfortable chair (or spot on the basketball court sidelines -- I'm not above sitting on the floor) and pull out the alphie and notes. No piddling! If I'm not in the mood to dip into my story, I can easily write up a blog post, article, or notes during that time.
3. Editing Anyone?
Some people can't write with people or noise around, and I totally understand that. But even if you can't write, you can try editing. I have to have my (old and heavy) laptop for this, but I can get a lot of editing done in this space of time. And the screen on my laptop does even more to deter conversations than the flat alphie.
4. Antisocial Much?
For some, this approach is a little too antisocial for them. I get it. But you could still get something accomplished during "bleacher time". Don't start off talking -- its too hard to rein that puppy in once it gets started. But give yourself 45 minutes to write, then pack up and spend the last 15 minutes connecting with the parents around you.
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Even More Game Time[/caption]
5. Non-writing Options
If you aren't prepared to write, then there are a few other things you can do to make this downtime worthwhile:
-People watch: Gain some insight into people's actions, how they move, gestures, how they talk to each other, etc., to make your characters come to life.
-Read a craft book: Keep a craft book or Kindle with you and spend some time brushing up on techniques that will deepen your skills.
How do you fit what you need to do into the "bleacher time"?
Dani



Hmmm… blogging on my own has been quite a scary venture. I know you're probably thinking doing something alone is a strange fear for someone my age, but the truth is, I've rarely been on my own in life. As a twin, I grew up with my sister by my side – never having to go into a social situation or new class on my own. We went to the same school, even had the same major in college. Then I married hubby and had someone else to go places with me or at least talk to about it when I came home. The kids were with me for school events and church. The Playfriends have been with me through a long list of personal and professional events, including national conferences, submissions, rejections, and my first sale.
I've only taken a few steps in my life all by my lonesome. Two of them have made dramatic changes in my personal and professional lives. The first was when I decided to write my very first story. I vividly remember the sick feeling of excitement in my stomach as I told my husband what I wanted to do. Imagine my surprise when he simply replied, "Okay," as if this were a normal, perfectly natural revelation. Others weren't as supportive, but my family has remained an incredible cheer squad throughout my journey.
More recently, I took another step alone. At least, the first step, the decision part. Along the way I've had some wonderful people join me, teach me, and assist me. It's become one of the most enjoyable steps I've taken in a long time.
I decided to self-publish some of my work.
I chose a novella that has a wonderful origin. A few years ago, when I was struggling mightily with rejection and writers block, I sought the counsel of one of my mentors and beloved friend, Maven Linda Winstead Jones. Her suggestion? Write something you love and enjoy, focusing simply on bringing those characters to life. Taking her advice, I wrote Snow Bound. I love this story about a burnt out military hero and the good girl of Cadence, TN, fending off a convict bent on revenge while snowed into her isolated farmhouse. So I've decided to bring it to readers in my own way and my own time.
My incredible (and incredibly patient) cover artist Scott Carpenter created the cover for me:
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My Very First Cover![/caption]
I love it! My awesome sister, Ella Sheridan, is helping out by lending me her professional editing skills so this baby goes into the world in tip top shape. I’m very excited.
My debut release will hit the electronic shelves this November. I'm putting together a blog tour and will be sharing milestones along this journey with my friends and readers here on my blog and at the Writing Playground.
This decision has been nerve-wracking, exciting, fun, and scary, but it’s the most rewarding thing I've done in a long time. While I’m just as excited about my print debut with Harlequin Desire in August 2013, I look forward to releasing more of my work myself, because it is a very rewarding creative process that feeds the writer within.
Often, it is those steps we make alone that define us, that reward us, whether through courage gained, new experiences, positive feedback, or strength built. I look forward to sharing more of this journey with you.
What solitary step have you taken that's turned into one of the most rewarding adventures of your life?
Dani
